Highly recommend this article on parenting teens! One of the best I have read to date!
http://thefatherlife.com/mag/2010/06/23/a-dads-point-of-view-turbulence-ahead-raising-teens-is-no-picnic/http://thefatherlife.com/mag/2010/06/23/a-dads-point-of-view-turbulence-ahead-raising-teens-is-no-picnic/
http://astore.amazon.com/lifsjouagrass-20/detail/B005ELMC0Q