Don’t ask your parents how to raise your child, trust your instincts and search for your own answers. DO ask your parents what their feelings were about parenting! What were their greatest challenges and joys! That will be a conversation worth having and remember to really listen to them. Grand children are a great opportunity to see your parents in all their human glory!
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